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Agnijaat Book 9 piece

SOS Skill 11
Skill 11 : Those who Can’t say “I love you!” most probably don’t love you!

I have noticed very often that people who can’t write down these two words “with love” or just one word before ending a message “love” are often incapable of loving or loving you.

When it comes to speaking people often can’t say “I love you” or “love you” we are brought up to hide these beautiful words! Heaven only knows why! I too can’t say it to someone but I don’t feel least hesitation to use these two words or one word when I am writing. Because loving comes naturally to me. Actually I can’t help this feeling if I am mixing with you, mingling with you. I can’t treat people coldly unless of course I am sure that they are not worthy of warmth and affection. I think that is the case of majority of us.

The only difference is many people look at relationships from “benefit” angle, and they loiter around a person if they have to have something from them. So they do it even if they hate that person, loathe that person or utterly despise that person. Or don’t care if s/he lives or dies. In any of these cases it will be really natural for them to forget the L word when they are bidding goodbye. It is as simple as that! It won’t come to their mind.

The other parties who keep the company of loved ones will quite normally bid goodbye with love and express it too. I think it is one of the tell-tale signs that tell you if you should invest your love or not on a person!

Agnijaat Book 9, 25she boisakh 1426, 7th May 2019
https://shoptly.com/i/gu5

Agnishatdal Book 9, 25she boisakh 1426, 7th May 2019
https://shoptly.com/i/gu6

Author:

A bookworm transformed into an addicted writer. I love to write and illustrate them myself. By love I mean love, no half-hearted relationship, a full-fledged, passionate love, I can’t pass two days in a stretch without writing/painting (cyber), just feel empty like lovers do when their lovers are away on a tour! Even though I am thoroughly enjoying self-publishing with amazon, but if you like my work and want to publish my works in your magazine, books or better if you want to publish a book of my works please make me very happy by contacting me. Or if you want to sell my works on commission basis only!! contact me, I will be quite relieved. Honestly writing and selling your own work is a very BORING combination. So you are more than welcome! Mail me @sharmishthabasu@hotmail.com, sermistabasu@gmail.com or go to- my blog (I have 16 blogs in wordpress, all active, some on daily basis, every one on weekly basis screaming and vowing my LOVE for writing and painting- this one is first-born, so special) mydomainpvt.wordpress.com (You will get the link to my remaining blogs there) or you can check out my ezines- monthly- Agnishatdalezine.wordpress.com And Agnijaat.wordpress.com if you want fb you can go to my page facebook.com/sermistabasu, linkedin- linkedin.com/authorsharmishthabasu my email id sharmishthabasu@hotmail.com and sermistabasu@gmail.com I am in goodreads and completelynovel too http://www.goodreads.com/sharmishthabasu http://completelynovel.com/sharmishtha-basu http://amazon.com/author/sharmishthabasu I guess I said enough about myself, right? You will forget if I stuff too much here, so if you are curious to know this humble creature just join me in my blogs :)

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